I've mentioned the PIT before fella

And I promise I will cover that soon

But today I want to talk about the valley of
dispair.

This is when you're ready to burn everything
to the ground.

When you're ready to give up

Throw in the towel..

Normally with thoughts or words of

It's too difficult,

It's too much work

There's too much to do

Or my old favorite

Things ain't that bad anyway.

You see there is something called the cycle
of change.

You set your goal, target or plan.

And you are full of motivation.

Anything seems possible and you are looking
forward too the challenge.

This is called uninformed optimism.

You're ready to go but you have no idea how
much work it will take.

Then you start to realize what it will take
to hit your goal.

There is more work than you realize and you
start to lose motivation.

This is called informed pessimism

Now things get tough. You feel overwhelmed,
tired and unmotivated.

The valley of despair

This is where you most likely give up

Why?

Because if you go back to the start

And start again

Set new goals

New targets.

You will feel good again

Motivated,

And have absolutely no idea how much work it
will take to hit your NEW goal.

Uninformed optimism.

However

Subconsciously you have just reinforced that..

You failed..

Again…

But what if when you were at at stage 2

Informed pessimism

You just kept going.

Regardless of hitting your goal or not.

Subconsciously, now you believe that you will
keep going.

No matter what.

To the finish.

Like a fxcking Warrior

Here's where the power is fella

Then the next time you set a goal.

You now know however tough it may be or
difficult to achieve

You KNOW you will keep going.

Till the end

And that my friend builds bad ass confidence.

Confidence and energy are your two
biggest allies.

In building ANYTHING.

John "valley" Seton

PS this is something we will work on inside
the GolfMob.

If you want in for the next intake (June) after
that its August before you can have

More confidence

More energy

More distance

You need to go here

https://golfmob.co.uk/application-form/

I have ONLY 1 spot left

Don't miss out.