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When It's Better To Fail

With today being the first “real day" that the world gets to go after any new targets they set over the new year, I’m gonna say the opposite to what everyone else will be telling you. 

And that is there are a few times when failing at your new year's targets may be the best thing for you.

You might ”think” that it's the worst thing to do but there is one time when it will actually be the best thing for long term results... 

And that's the real point... you need to change the way you think... if you want to change your results... because... as soon as you hit a barrier, an obstacle or resistance from others, you will look for a reason to quit or worse to jump to something else... 

Looking at what others are doing and wonder if you should be focused on that instead.

Why is doing something else worse than failing?

Because if you fail you have to sack up and own that decision and assess what went wrong, but...

Jumping from one thing to another means you get to hide from your own reality and blame the thing that you were doing, something else, someone else, whatever you can point the finger at and shift any blame from yourself. 

But failing means you can look and assess why you couldn’t do it... 

Was it a lack of Skillsets, did you not know what to do and what not to do... 

Or,

Was it not having the right mindset to continue when stuff got spicy and tough when it seems like the whole world is against you pulling it off. 

Unbreakable Rule #1 “It’s always your fault” 

If it’s your fault you can do something about it, take some action or at worst learn what not to do next time.

But, if you believe it’s someones or something else's fault you become powerless to do grow and improve. 

Unbreakable Golfers is built for a certain type of golfer. 

Who has a certain type of mindset that they will do anything to get better...

There are only a few like that, most just want to buy more equipment and think that their results are tied up to what they use not who that need to become to get better. 

That fella knows that he can leverage his crazy unexplainable addiction to golf and everything around it, to look and feel younger while hitting the ball further...

Yet that takes work, and the best results (the ones that stay with you) are on the other side of the hard work... 

Any golfers that come in, I want them to win but I can't do the work for them... If I want your results more than you do then we are both fucxed... 

But if you are willing to sack up, fail and go again then the Fairway 4 system can get you started, and stop stopping. 

https://www.unbreakablegolfers.com

John Seton