When They Try To Talk You Out Of It
You know when you pitch an idea
And the people you pitch it to, instantly
try to talk you out of it.
They can find everything wrong with it,
How it won’t work or why it’s not possible.
In a time like this it’s important to see
if they’re scared. Cos fear does something
to a fella.
He can’t admit he’s fearful
Fellas are fearless right
Bullsh*t.
So the next time you suggest something
remember that if it has implications to the
people you’re suggesting it to.
They might be acting out of fear
Fear of change
Fear of loss
Even fear of the unknown
Just be aware it’s not that it’s
impossible, it’s just a brand new fear for
them and it’s gonna take time for that
initial fear to subside.
But then, when the shock is not so great
Pitch it again and see how many questions
they have.
And more importantly what type of
questions.
The first time they will be:
“I can’t see how that will work because...”
The next time could be.....
“So how do you think that’s gonna work?”
Ones close minded the other open minded.
So my question to you is,
Where in your body are you not focusing on
getting better out of fear?
Fear that you’ve tried stuff before that
hasn’t worked,
Fear of failure,
Fear that you won’t succeed
this is the worst one cos do you know that
if you don’t even try, you’ve failed
anyway.
John “Fuc’um” Seton
PS you can only control your actions and
reactions.
Very soon we’re gonna show you how to
master them