Now, there was a time we could randomly spurt obscene words,

Sing lyrics of songs and watch Pulp Fiction during the day

But with kids, with minds like sponges and the ability to pick the wrong naughty word out of any sentence...

that has all changed

Now we have to talk in abbreviations,

“Shall we go to the P.A.R.k

But sometimes the abbreviation is the trigger or code that is universally understood by everyone who hears it

So you can’t use them either as the kids could copy them like...

The M.F.P (the mother f police)

See you next Tuesday (c what I did there)

And because of that the abbreviation has a powerful meaning...

A trigger

This comes down to emotion (how the word makes people feel) and can upset people

These triggers are like a scratch on a record (vinyl of course) and it jumps back to a place and time in your subconscious

Take the following words...

Lazy,

Weak,

Angry,

Useless,

Idiot,

If you were to say “I am” before those words and it “triggered” you then you have an emotional charge to that word.

It means it can be thrown at you and you could lose your sheeeet...

But here’s the weird thing..

Most fellas will say their trigger words in their head to themselves while trying to play golf

and how can that be helpful when you’re tying to do something difficult.

You must learn to deal with the trigger

Deal with the trigger so it won’t bother you anymore.

A great resource on this is anything by Mark Divine

Or you could just go here

https://www.johnseton.com/unbreakable-experience

John Seton