How the FBI can help your golf.

Jim Camp was considered the world's best negotiator, so much so that the FBI changed their whole way of negotiating because of his "NO" system.

His system has many parts but is focused on a few foundational principles.

One of them is his "Vision Drives Decision" principle...

The fact, that people make decisions based on what they see and feel.

Marketers have being doing this for years and know that people buy stuff based on emotion and back that decision up with logic.

Think about the old washing powder adverts getting you to see what's possible for you if you buy their product versus the leading unnamed brand (which your mind feels in who it is).

When you apply this principle to the news, your news feed and WhatsApp videos sent to your phone these visions can help persuade you to make decisions.

wether those decisions are things you want like cutting something out or you don't want like sedating with whatever you use as a coping mechanism for stress.

So this same FBI system can help explain why we sometimes make stupid decisions on the golf course.

You know the ones.

I can't tell you the number of times I've been in the trees, with a poor lie, surrounded by bushes, stumps, leaves, twigs, branches, squirrels and big old trees that resemble something out of first blood. (part 1 obviously)

But what happens is there is a tiny gap that looks straight to the green, a vision of hitting a worldy, talking about it in the bar, telling anyone that would listen,

And then comes the decision to hit it, against all better judgment, and what follows is normally a lot of ricocheting, ducking and swearing.

We can use vision to make decisions to get the results we need,

And that comes with getting clear on what you WANT and WHY and taking the simple daily actions needed to get us where we want to go.

And with building a better body for golf.

It's here

https://www.johnseton.com/golfmobonline

This Is Fargin War

Not sure if you’ve ever seen the film Johnny dangerously, but it’s kind of a naked gun gangster type film set in the ’30s

It’s about a young guy named Johnny dangerously (did you see that one coming) who had to turn to crime to pay for his Ma’s medical bills. 

However, what it is most remembered for is one of the mob bosses who has a very thick accent that restricts his ability to speak English correctly. 

Some of he’s hilarious sayings are:

“This is fargin war”

“You fargin sneaky barstage”

“You’ll wind up with your bells in a sling”

And “Why you miserable cork-soaker”

The reason I bring this up is when I got off the plane at Gatwick the only thought that entered my head was “this is fargin cold”… And got thinking this is probably what it sounds like when trying to speak Spanish. 

I bet I sound like this guy, butchering the words and phrases, and it being funny to those that hear it. With a accent that doesn't pronounce the "h" sound in any words like "elicopter" "Bloody ell" "ello" (for the record the "J" is pronounced with a "H" sound and I still don't do that). I don't even pronounce the "T" in my own name. 

But with that being said, nothing gets better without practice, and I suppose if anyone would have had the "bells" to subtly correct the mob boss, on his new language, he would have been able to course correct and slowly get better. 

That being said, that’s pretty much all anyone needs to get results, 

1. The "bells" to take action,

2. The ability to course correct, when off-track,

3. The "bells" to try again when there has been some failure.

I’m not sure how many times you've tried to get what you want in golf and in fitness, or if you think that you can't do the work, or that it won’t work, but what if the reason was you just….

Wasn't fargin trying hard enough,

What if you just needed some other barstages to refocus you and give you that little nudge back on track.

What if everything you wanted was just one more try away. 

If you think that coming up to Xmas is the time to slow down, then maybe that’s because that is what everyone else is doing. 

If you want to be better and are tired of the sheesh you put your body through then maybe the online golf mob is for you.  

I will tell you this though, 

If you are selected "this is fargin war", but it’s a war that is worth fighting and winning. 

And you can win it in under a month.  

Anyway, wanna know more, then take a look at this 

https://www.johnseton.com/golfmobonline 

John Seton 

Sometimes you need a good ass-kicking .

So I had my first Fight, Bout, Comp, Match (I'm not sure how you actually refer to it) in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu In Valencia. 

It was scheduled for 12.28 in the PM and the weigh-in at 9-ish. However, as it was in Spain I actually got on the mats at 16.48.

The venue was huge and as soon as I laid my eyes on it that's when the nerves and me-old-April started going. 

They came up again at the weigh-in and at different points throughout the day. 

I actually managed to get in a kip too, on the seats in the stands due to the delay (I can kip anywhere, Planes, Trains, cinemas and now sporting events).

But nothing could prepare me for stepping on the mat and seeing who I'm facing. 

You see I'd missed weight by 2 Kg (Shame, Shame) and ended up in the next division potentially giving away a stone to a fella who’s pecs liked to wave hello out of his GI.

When the match started I was made aware that the guy was NOT as strong as some of the guys I've been rolling with and, I thought I'd done well with only a few mistakes and ended up losing on points. 

But, When I watched the video back its obvious that he was always in control, was never really worried after the start and knew more then my tiny head had learned in the 10 months I’d been doing it. 

It was quite a humbling experience. 

What followed was a huge disappointment, self-doubt and a night of thinking what could have been until the realisation that the targets that I had set had actually been hit. 

I wanted to fight in a comp before the year was out (which was in my control) and wanted to not be submitted of which I did both. 

Time for new targets to be set. 

Golfers at the start of every year or summer for that matter, set targets to cut scores, others set targets to lose weight (and worry it might affect their golf, and It can if not managed right)

They also do this by setting targets they can’t control... like cut 2 strokes or lose 2 stone. 

But if you set targets that are in your control you will have better results and a lot less pain, frustration, and the “F-it I give up” attitude. 

More context needed? your wish is my command. 

Instead of cutting 2 strokes (Which isn’t completely in your control) what if you worked on the weakest part of your game consistently (Which you can control) 

Instead of losing weight, what if you focused on training daily, eating better and stop making excuses for why you can’t do those things. 

Enter the GolfMob online 30 day transformation and its accompanying FREE golf nutrition plan, if you want to know what to eat on and off the golf course for better performance on it then this free download might be for you.

but you will actually have to do something, not just read the plan and add it to your “soon to-do list”. 

Results require’s action, and this FREE plan and its daily emails actually filter out those golfers who would be a terrible fit to get the results from it.

That's why the full program is application only, it requires hard work, consistency and you have to actually stop the excuses that keep you stuck.. 

Anyway, want more info….. go here

https://www.johnseton.com/golfmobonline

John Seton